When marriage/relationships start to fall apart, a lot of people tend to give up on the entire situation and person. They feel like it is a helpless cause and they just turn the other way and walk. But like I said, a lot of people, not all of them. Me and my husband recently had a fall out due to intimacy issues from him being away so much. Before we let it destroy what we had, we quickly thought of ways to bring life back into something that was once bright and exciting. The first and last thing that we tried that worked amazingly was mature phone sex. Now every time my husband goes on a work related trip we spend our evenings talking on the phone and having a little fun with our conversations. It is certainly a great way to re-spark what you once had.